Is There a Problem with My Job?

Growing up and especially in high-school, we're all faced with the question: "what do you want to be when you grow up?" For most of us (myself included) we want to be the typical lawyer, teacher, doctor, etc. We want to be the job that we think a) pays good, b) is fun, c) fits our personality.

In my case, I got so hung-up as an adolescent on what I "thought" I wanted to be that I forgot about the other 1.2 million job titles in America. I was determined- with a capital D- to be a doctor.

My life's plan was this:

- Graduate valedictorian from North High

- Attend Wake Forest University and obtain my degree in Biology

- Ace the MCATs

- Get into Medschool (preferably an NC school)

- Become a plastic surgeon (right in-line with one of my favorite doctors- Dr. Scott Don...a brief shout-out here to this man. He is wonderful- kind, caring, humorous, and a A+ surgeon).

But, as I got further and further into my education at Wake Forest, I became less and less convinced that being a doctor is what I was supposed to do. But, HOW would I tell the world? How would I tell every person that believed in me to become a doctor that I wanted a change in plans? Since I was 7, I was going to be a doctor- this means I was on that career path for 14 years!

After taking the MCAT (doing well- not perfect- but well), and applying early to medschools- I started thinking/fretting/praying/etc. I started getting acceptance letters (from ECU), waitlist letters (from WFU and UNC)...THE TIME WAS NOW! I had to make a decision.

I was scared of what people would think, I was scared of what to do with my education (time and money spent), but I was ready to take the leap.

I now work for Union Grove Lumber as the CFO- so I deal with bankers all day and not women who want plastic surgery. I put on my blue jeans and polo shirt instead of scrubs. I bring home a paycheck just like anyone else in the working world. And, I do not see anyone that has a problem with my job. I am happy, I am content, and I am successful.

So, if you are stuck in a rut- or if you have made a lifetime decision that you think you can never change- it's not too late. The only person that will find a problem with your job is you. If you're not happy in your current or future situation- change. If you're worried about a pay change, the truth is, your happiness is worth more than extra bucks in the bank.

No problems in paradise,

Erica